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"Sexual Muse is a bold and unapologetic platform dedicated to embracing the beauty of sexual confidence, enjoyment, and empowerment. Here, we share empowering narratives and resources that encourage individuals to explore their desires and embrace their authentic sensual selves. Our mission is to provide a safe, inclusive information to help everyone can unleash their inner muse, free from judgment or shame.Join us in the journey of self-discovery, sexual maturity and empowerment, and be part of a community that celebrates the transformative power of embracing one’s sexuality."

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Masturbating in front of your partner - is a superpower

Let’s normalise something deliciously bold: Masturbating in front of your partner. Not as a show. Not as an “invitation.” As a power move.

Shelby Silk

Aug 133 min read

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Erotic Obsessions: A Chat Room with your partner to Set You on Fire

A locked, private WhatsApp chat for just the two of you—dedicated solely to erotic talk, teasing pics, and sexual tension. Your own custom kink channel.

Shelby Silk

4 hours ago2 min read

The Pleasure Bucket: Banking on Intimacy

Prioritise intimacy. The Pleasure Bucket fuels your sex life weekly—set, forget, and spend on what turns you both on.

Shelby Silk

6 days ago2 min read

"Sexy Day Smorgasbord" - A 'Choose-your-own Adventure' in Pleasure

Welcome to the Sexual Day Smorgasbord—where your partner chooses eight delicious delights from the menu, in order, and you serve them with no substitutions.

Shelby Silk

Aug 162 min read

"Don’t Die Nervous": What Matthew McConaughey Can Teach Us About Sex, Surrender, and Saying What You Want

“Don’t die nervous”—in sex, that means releasing shame, embracing desire, and boldly expressing what you want. Let go. Speak up. Pleasure begins with letting go.

Shelby Silk

Aug 163 min read

Shibari: The Art of Rope, Restraint, and Connection

Shibari is more than knots — it’s an erotic dance of rope across the skin, heightening every sense. It’s trust, surrender, and connection. Bound in stillness, I’m powerless to do anything but receive, making it the perfect addition to Yoni Night. A ritual of love, restraint, and pure, intentional pleasure.

Shelby Silk

Aug 163 min read

The Four Hour Sex Date

A weekly four-hour sex date to reconnect, explore, and keep intimacy, passion, and desire burning strong in your relationship.

Shelby Silk

Aug 162 min read

Squirting: A Gentle Guide to Encouraging It

Squirting can be learned through relaxation, trust, and specific stimulation of the G-spot, often paired with clitoral touch. Remove pressure, focus on pleasure, and embrace the urge to release. Some experience an intense, full-body orgasm; others may not — both are normal.

Dr. Jen

Aug 162 min read

Squirting: What’s Really Going On?

Squirting is the release of fluid from the female urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm, often from the bladder and sometimes mixed with Skene’s gland secretions. It’s real, harmless, and can happen naturally or be learned with specific techniques. Intensely pleasurable for some, absent for others — both are completely normal.

Dr. Jen

Aug 163 min read

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Sheby Silk

Shelby Silk, 53, confident sensual muse, mother, lover, fitness devotee, kink enthusiast, inspiring women to embrace unapologetic passion, intimacy, and pleasure.

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